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Boundaries are your greatest friend. Like a sword, that keeps on getting sharpened, whereby the blade continues to become sharper, still.As boundary setting, is a skill which is in constant motion &amp; evolution (at least it should be!). The process whereby you learn to set firmer boundaries &amp; to set them much faster too. As your self love &amp; respect grows as well, so does your capcity to set &amp; uphold healthy boundaries.&amp; the more you love yourself, the more you want to protect yourself.The more you see yourself as a unique, stunning diamond, the more you understand how you are so worthy of respect &amp; kindness.In fact, simply because you exist, are you worth of respect &amp; compassion.In essence, it’s your birth right.Much love, Modern Mystic Medicine

Boundaries your Greatest Friend

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What is a parentified child?In its core essence, this is when a young child is forced to become “like a parent” in the home, because of the emotional immaturity of the parents. In this way, the roles reverse. The child starts to act in some ways like the parent &amp; the parent starts to act like this child. The roles in this dynamic get reversed, hence the name given, parentified child. Once again, in hopes, that if she can take care of the parents needs, that finally the parent will then be able to turn around and take care of the needs of the child. Some Examples of this:The child had to walk on egg shells around parents who were unable to self-regulate &amp; were often emotionally (possibly physically) volatile. These parents were emotionally unpredictable &amp; out of control. This is why the child began trying to soothe the parents emotions, as to keep the parent calm &amp; to prevent and outburst from the parent. In essence, to protect herself from this emotionally, out of control, unpredictable, parent.&nbsp; Another example, a parent who is often sulking &amp; in the victim mode, the child will transform to be the people pleaser of the parent, to hopefully make them ‘happy’, once again.&nbsp;The child hopes by attuning to and adjusting its behavior to take care of the unmet emotional needs of the parents, that in return, the child will finally get its own needs taken care of. For example, trying to soothe the emotions of a stressed out, frazzled adult. Or, trying to stay quiet so as to not disturb an overstimulated, frustrated parent. Or, for example, having praised their parent, to give them a lot of fawning attention to the one or both of parents, or act in other ways to prevent punishment.&nbsp;In some cases of more extreme physical abuse, taking on caretaking roles, such as taking care of a younger child’s needs. And being met with larger, more adult-like responsibilities such as putting a meal together for herself. Or putting her younger sibling to bed.&nbsp;

Parentified Child

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If you're a healer or you work in caregiving positions for other people, this work is for you.If you want to elevate your work and the depth that it can reach, signing up for the courses I offer can bring these desired results.It is one of my innate gifts &amp; talents, to be a healer of the healers. Either you are still in the wounded healer archetype and you need assistance to rise above and out of that, or you are already offering work and services and you want to elevate, deepen &amp; expand on what you already offer. Simultaneously deepening your own process &amp; that of your clients. In both cases, you have arrived at the right place.Meridian Energetics based off of the evolving 12 chakras and the Meridian Points is a total energy reset, cleansing, and upgrade like I have never experienced before. Resetting you to your divine blueprint so that you may align with your true life path &amp; awaken your innate virtues, traits, talents &amp; skills. To live a true life of expansion, joy, health &amp; alignment. To be able to manifest abundance and offer your gifts to the world, to play an active role in the evolution process. To become an authentic sovereign being, connected to spirit &amp; mother earth.&nbsp;Meridian Energetics is then combined with my expertise on inner child's work, meditation, along with my other holistic expertise, approaches &amp; knowledge. In this way, I offer a unique &amp; effective path to wholeness &amp; wellness.I am able to reconnect you with your higher self and to bring you to a true state of balance. On a physical level, mental level, emotional level, and on a spiritual level.The intent is to bring you out of sickness, back into wholeness, and to bring you back to your full power. So, click the link in my bio to easily book an intake session, to meet each other, to discuss the possibilities, and to see if we are aligned. Much love, Modern Mystic Medicine.

Offering: The Healer of Healers

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To be the light in the darkness, what an honor. The path was not easy &amp; I still face challenges. But my inner peace &amp; my capacity to tackle the challenges gracefully as they arise has only increased.&nbsp;As the challenges &amp; tribulations are not there to destroy you. They are here to mold you &amp; shape you into the kind of person who can stand fully on their own two feet, without being knocked over, fully in their sovereignity.&nbsp;When faced with challenges, we have choices. We can either succumb to the pressure &amp; get crushed under the weight… or we can face the test head on.But if you so choose to face the challenges head-on, you will start to feel your own power and capacity. And this is how Spirit trains you and makes you an efficient warrior who can face the trials and tribulations that this world offers. And in this way, aligning with our own divine blueprint and life path, as well as freeing others along the way. It is meant to make us confident in our abilities to understand at a deep soul level that we can face anything that comes our way. When we accept the challenge, it brings wholeness to our being.&nbsp;

Accepting Challenges Brings Wholeness

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Age comes with wisdom, and with wisdom we can offer this gift to others. It doesn’t matter the species. Take this neighbor’s cat, for example. He’s very old, with dirt on his paws, often sleeping outside and wandering over to say hello. You can see his age in the way he moves: perhaps he forgets to clean himself, or maybe he carries a touch of arthritis. He must be handled gently. Yet his energy remains immaculate and deeply compassionate. With ancient wisdom beeming from his eyes, as if his soul is timeless.Today he came and, of his own will, climbed onto my lap. Immediately, I felt his presence flow into me: a pure, expansive, cleansing energy. I accepted this gift from my friend, knowing that cats are natural ethereal beings, instinctive energy workers. When a cat chooses to offer assistance, it is always true at the soul level.There is much we can learn from felines. They are natural transmuters, beings without an off switch. This is why, when a cat lives in a home filled with heavy, toxic, or stressful energy, it can overwhelm them. Such situations reveal the importance of allowing cats access to the outdoors, where they can release accumulated energy from their physical bodies. Of course, every situation is unique, and some indoor cats do just fine. Still, I believe it is healthier to let cats spend time outside.Cats are telepathic and profoundly intuitive. They embody the feminine: flowing, untamed, impossible to control. They walk in two worlds at once: this one and the spirit world. They are guardians and guides. So, if you have a cat in your life, or if cats often approach you, know it is never by accident. They are offering their presence and their service. Accept it with gratitude.

Wisdom From Elderly Cats

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